Sometimes being a human is hard to do online, but here’s three simple thing to incorporate into your “social media repertoire.”
1. Humans have conversations
Humans don’t hand out business cards constantly, or take every speaking opportunity to tell others about their products or services. Humans interact — they share stories about little things that happened during their day. And they do it because it’s cathartic and interesting. Sometimes the craziest, coolest stuff happens during a day. That’s the kind of stuff I want to read about.
I truly enjoy reading Peter Hodgson’s (@iheartguitar) updates on twitter. It really doesn’t get any better than this. Peter is successful because he never pretends to be anything but himself, and he interjects all that personality into his writing.
This goes two ways, however. Humans also listen to other humans talking about their lives: they engage in a dialog. Earlier today some folks and I were talking about choral music on twitter. A choral composer interjected, but he did it in a not so good way. Instead of adding to the conversation (about understanding music) with some insightful thoughts, he asked us to go check out his music. That’s fine–I did check out his music. But I also didn’t follow that user. I didn’t give him permission to interact with me on a long term basis. Had he shared some insightful comments on the subject, I guarantee I would have been more interested in what he did.
2. Humans tell others about cool stuff
If you’re a human, you’ve probably told your other human friends about a cool restaurant you found. Or maybe you told them about a sweet new CD you bought.
It works in the same way online. Find a cool article? Share it. Chances are you’re connected to people with similar interests, so they’ll be glad to check out something you found cool.
In Trust Agents Chris Brogan and Julien Smith recomment promoting others 12 times as much as you promote yourself. Here’s a more general rule: one or two out of every 10 or 12 updates should be self promotional. Have conversations and spread the word about all that cool stuff you find.
3. Humans do favors
Humans help each other out just to help others out. It’s easy, and it makes you feel awesome. Helping your friend move might be painful during the work, but nothing feels better than the exhaustion and sense of accomplishment at the end of the day.
As a human online, you should make it your mission to provide a service to others. Sometimes that service costs money, and that’s okay. But most times it’s free.
A service can be anything: a few minutes of entertainment, an instructional article, a thoughtful discourse, or a helpful response to a question. Try to be useful in some way and you’re truly being a human being.
I like hanging out with other humans
So this is my personal message for people that don’t quite get using social media for marketing. It’s easy: be yourself and have conversations, share cool stuff, and be useful.